Christopher Sirju
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ey chris.. come here..  / The Spooky One (friend)  Read >>
ey chris.. come here..  / The Spooky One (friend)
Chris, things today just dont seem right anymore.. for the past week i feelin like im on autopilot or something.. jus existing and i really dont even know what my purpose is.. when im like this and feelin sad, like the whole world is out to get me.. you used to make things better.. but now, when im sad, the one person who could cheer me up and give me a lil laugh.. isnt even here.. times like this, i harass your sister cuz she is the female version to you lol. Thumbs up to mom and dad for that..

Ey hear wah this random girl message me on hi5 and tell me when she read the journal in your memory eh.. lol yuh will rel like yuhself when yuh read this.. God must be partial to have endowed a single soul with so much beauty, grace, panche, elgance & allure. If I ever have d luxury of dreaming of him, I bet I'll b afraid of waking up coz I wouldn't want 2 lose him! weird.. hahaha i was like whos you? and wah dem big words mean jed? lolll

So, i was talking to the "someone who loves you".. its easy to understand that some days will be harder than the usual (in terms of missing you).. but noone will ever understand the different feelings inside us.. each of us has it but in different quantities, according to how close we were to you i guess.. 

Well you know who it is right?? Yes iz a gurl!!.. i'll say it to her on your behalf.. and i'll say it to her the way u used to tell me.. in those quotes.. 

"To love is a duty and right. To be loved is a gift and luck. To love someone who loves u is an achievement. To be loved by someone whom u love is LIFE!".. 

So be thankful and i know you are.. "The greatest gift u can give to someone is ur time coz when u give someone ur time, u have given them a portion of ur life that u'll never get back."

God gave u 2 legs to walk, 2 hands to hold, 2 ears to hear, 2 eyes to see. But why did he give u only 1 Heart?
Probably because he wants u to look for the other..

Never look for a Good Face, it'll turn old one day; Never look for a Good Skin, it'll wrinkle one day; But look for a loyal heart, that'll miss u every day... 

Then his comment would be something along the lines of... even though i was all of that multilpied by 1000 and more.. d goodlooking ole mammoo still wants you to know that everything will be alright and he loves you and misses you just as much as u do.. always with his cute lil hobit, frodo.. 

So i cant make my own day go better, but i know i jus made someone's else's cuz they did the same for me.. that "someone who loves you" and wishes to remain unknown hahah.. i miss you chris, i really do.. life really is too short..

† R.I.P Christopher Dominic Sirju †

missing u is an understatement  / Someone Who Loves You   Read >>
missing u is an understatement  / Someone Who Loves You
I love you today,tomorrow,yesterday and forever.Ive missed u alot since u've been gone,too much that today i read over every single tribute and of course cudnt help the teary eyes...its  like i know i wudnt forget the things that made u special in my life but i read every thing over in the tributes just to make sure i remeber evrything.Its times like these when i have absolutely nothing to do,i miss u the most,i wish u were here...nothing seems to be goin right these days..i miss the advice,the calls,the chats online.
I love you and miss you dearly
A friend Close
My Friend  / A. Friend Of Chris   Read >>
My Friend  / A. Friend Of Chris
"Even the death of friends will inspire us as much as their lives.

Our friends have no place in the graveyard."

I can't remember whose quote this is but I heard it during a movie and I thought of Chris. 

Chris was (sometimes is) truly a great friend. He always knew what to say and how to make you feel had no choice not with the jokes and the laugh. 

I know he will never be forgotten...he was too large. 

To his parents ..great job. To be such a good person has to be inherited and learnt from someone and I know it's you guys. I didn't know you until Chris died and definitely you should be commended for a job well done.

So rest in peace Sirju...keep on laughing and loving. We will never forget you.

My Friend  / A. Friend Of Chris   Read >>
My Friend  / A. Friend Of Chris
"Even the death of friends will inspire us as much as their lives.

Our friends have no place in the graveyard."

I can't remember whose quote this is but I heard it during a movie and I thought of Chris. 

Chris was (sometimes is) truly a great friend. He always knew what to say and how to make you feel had no choice not with the jokes and the laugh. 

I know he will never be forgotten...he was too large. 

To his parents ..great job. To be such a good person has to be inherited and learnt from someone and I know it's you guys. I didn't know you until Chris died and definitely you should be commended for a job well done.

So rest in peace Sirju...keep on laughing and loving. We will never forget you.

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY CHRISTOPHER  / Debbie Wengert (Kevin's Mom )  Read >>
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY CHRISTOPHER  / Debbie Wengert (Kevin's Mom )

A Very Special 'Son'......Chris  / Aunty Maureen ("My Son" )  Read >>
A Very Special 'Son'......Chris  / Aunty Maureen ("My Son" )
Chris.......I did not want to say but i am just like everyone else too, always having you in my thoughts and yes, each day just like your mom says there is always something that brings you to my thoughts.
I do not want to remember the 22nd January 2006, because it only makes me sad that you left us, you were just like a son to me and you and imzaan had so much in common and he always says to me that he will never/ever have another friend like Chris, you were my second son and no one will take that place.  The times we shared were so special just too short  and the laughs and ole talk will always remain in our memory and everytime I think of those times I will see you as if you were here with us.........believe me I do understand how your mom feels when she says she miss you like crazy and lately i am only thinking of you and remembering those times that our family shared with were very special and will always be part of our family....son rest in peace, you made an impact on earth and I am sure you are doing the same right now.

My son, my beloved...  / Mummy   Read >>
My son, my beloved...  / Mummy

I really believe that you are around us now. I thought it was me alone but it's your friends too. I just can't stop thinking about you and I am missing you like crazy. Everynite I either dream of you or dream you and it's always with a message.

I wish I could hear your voice...remember how I used to call you all the time when you went out? When I hear you I know you are Ok. I would give anything to hear your voice now. I miss you so much Chris. I can't imagine you anywhere else but with us here. 

Yesterday was not a good day, I was plain missing you. I try to hide my feeling from everyone around me cause I just want to be by myself sometimes. But when I was at my lowest Kristen came downstairs and just hugged me and said " I love you mom"...I was taken aback cause I was really missing you at that point. I really felt that you sent her...I could hear you saying ...Ape, go downstairs and give mummy a hug...go now!!!.

I love you son and I will see you in all the messages, visits, songs on the radio...everything.

Oh Keshan....when we listen and pay attention...they are communicating with us. Lets face it ....Chris will never leave us alone.

We will keep your  memory alive...RIP SON!!!  Close
In my thoughts..  / Keshan Dass (friend tru stacoi )  Read >>
In my thoughts..  / Keshan Dass (friend tru stacoi )
Chris, something gone wrong with my computer so i come to crash my gurl own 2. Its funny the way i cant accept the fact that you arent alive anymore.. i jus get this strange feeling that you are here somewhere and i jus aint see u in a long time.. like i will see u sometime very soon. i got a weird text msg last night from a strange number and this is what it said "they say sweet people die young, so i guess i'll see you in heaven soon" when i say strange number, i doh mean any ordinary trinidad numer eh hoss.. it was rel scary ah wont lie! dred when ah get that msg eh, ah get dotish and only cuz the night before i dreamt that we were limin up in zen and now i wake up this mornin and last night i dreamt i bounce u up playing carnival with ah whole set ah gurls around ya! thats always a normal scene eh bro lol but my point of writing this is probably because i feel your presence and i believe that everyone else who writes stuff on this site feels it as well.. btw that mass they had for you, dude it was really grand style eh! your mom, dad & sis looked great, the food taste d best, and it had relll ppl lol oh yeah and stacy and shauna pass meh straight oui.. the pics on the wall hahaha even though i know u woulda get angry, tell meh yuh didnt enjoy it nuh? thats right everyone had a wonderful time, all thanks to you Christopher. (i know u hate wen fellas call u christopher buh hard luck cuz u cyah do anything bout it lol) well except...... MAN STOP TEXTING MEH EH! Stacy & I did some research las week and this is what we found hahah.. yes, i know u saying we are some troubled young chiren buh doh worry school starting back tomorrow so we go be busy after today! Besides, u know things like dis does make your day ent ent? u up in heaven feeling all nice like a shinny brand new 25 cents and smiling / laughing / blushing / likin yuhself! laterz dawg.. keep it kool and always keep a safe eye on us. Peace!

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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! / Roger S. (Old classmate (a+) )  Read >>
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! / Roger S. (Old classmate (a+) )
Imagine my suprise when I learn that you left here over a year after your death. I found out from another of our classmates (can't really remember his name and was kinda ashamed to ask him it). Used ta see you in da mall - hope you got your A+ certificate - I haven't wrote the exam up to now (TALK 'BOUT SLACKNESS!!!!!). Well bud, gonna go now. talk to you later in prayer.

Bones. Close
Wet Pants...  / Stacy Sankar (a glad sams student )  Read >>
Wet Pants...  / Stacy Sankar (a glad sams student )
Come with me to a third grade classroom..... There is a nine-year old kid sitting at his desk and all of a sudden, there is a puddle between his feet and the front of his pants are wet. He thinks his heart is going to stop because he cannot possibly imagine how this has happened.

It's never happened before, and he knows that when the boys find out he will never hear the end of it. When the girls find out, they'll never speak to him again as long as he lives. The boy believes his heart is  going to stop; he puts his head down and prays this prayer...

"Dear God, this is an emergency! I need help now! Five minutes from now I'm dead meat." 

He looks up from his prayer and here comes the teacher with a look in her eyes that says he has been discovered. As the teacher is walking toward him, a classmate named Susie is carrying a goldfish bowl that is filled with water. Susie trips in front of the teacher and inexplicably dumps the bowl of water in the boy's lap. The boy pretends to be angry, but all the while is saying to himself, "Thank you, Lord! Thank you, Lord!" Now all of a sudden, instead of being the object of ridicule, the boy is the object of sympathy. The teacher rushes him downstair and gives him gym shorts to put on while his pants dry out. All the other children are on their hands and knees cleaning up around his desk.

The sympathy is wonderful. But as life would have it, the ridicule that should have been his has been transferred to someone else - Susie. She tries to help, but they tell her to get out. You've done enough, you klutz!"

Finally, at the end of the day, as they are waiting for the bus, the boy walks over to Susie and whispers...

"You did that on purpose, didn't you?" Susie whispers back, "I wet my pants once too."

May God help us see the opportunities that are always around us to do good.

Remember.....Just going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than standing in your garage makes you a car.

Each and everyone one of us are going through tough times right now, but God is getting ready to bless you in a way that only He can. Keep the faith.

This prayer is powerful, and prayer is one of the best gifts we receive. There is no cost but a lot of rewards. Let's continue to pray for one another.

The prayer:

Father, I ask You to bless my friends, relatives and those that I care deeply for, who are reading this right now. Show them a new revelation of Your love and power. Holy Spirit, I ask You to minister to their spirit at this very moment. Where there is pain, give them Your peace and mercy. Where there is self-doubt, release a renewed confidence through Your grace. Where there is need, I ask you to fulfill their needs. Bless their homes, families, finances, their goings and their comings. Amen.
Papi....he's now with Chris...RIP boys.  / Nina Sirju   Read >>
Papi....he's now with Chris...RIP boys.  / Nina Sirju

Today Papi died. It was a long battle with cancer but it's over now.
We never thought he would outlive you but the Lord knows best.

Papi was our neighbour and he was 20 years old too. Chris became friends with him and used to take him to visit his mom on weekends. He was a good person with a kind heart and even though he was so very sick he never forget Jan 22nd. 

He called me last Wednesday from the hospital. I could barely understand him but I knew he asked for everyone and he said he didn't forget you Chris. 

I will always cherish that conversation. I told him that we prayed for him all the time and that I loved him. 

Now you have a paddna to lime with Chris...the curry duck lime could still go on.

All our sympathy go to his's never easy but God is great and he holds a special place for all the parents who loose their children.

Love you and thanks for the visit last nite.

Always your Mom.
Jan 22nd 2007....  / Mom   Read >>
Jan 22nd 2007....  / Mom
Aunty Ron called and thought we would be sad etc until she heard the menu. She said we planning a party and they were feeling sad.

Nothing we could do for you would be sad. You spirit was too happy and free. 

Mass was done by Fr. Matthew and his message was about Faith, Hope and Love. These are the things that help  see us through each day and will continue to do so.

The day was great...the food was a big hit. In true Chris style nothing was left over for today. The corn soup, bake & shark, aloo pies and pholourie real lash!!!!

Later we had a slide show with your pics...I know you would never approve but I now have the say man. Besides Joel helped.

Chris, did you know how great you were? If you are in any doubt just read the candles and the tributes. 

I am truly touched to see the candles and the tributes ...some made me cry and some made me laugh. 

They are important to me cause I love reading about you and seeing how much people care not just for you but now for Dad, Kristen and Me. We have a whole new family now.

Stacy is right ..we have made new friends and  lot of people now know some more people because of you.

So you are still linking up people could we ever think that you are gone are here with ALL of us. .

Everyday I pray to God to continue to give us strength cause this journey not easy. We miss you so I called your name twice by accident. I need you Chris son , my love. 

Until we meet again, stay sweet and keep us smiling.

Thanks to everyone who came yesterday, those who couldn't make it I know your prayers were with us. May God continue to Bless all of you. Close
R.I.P Christopher D Sirju  / Stacy Sankar (friend till d end )  Read >>
R.I.P Christopher D Sirju  / Stacy Sankar (friend till d end )

Chris, One year has passed, nothing has changed except your family has made a whole bunch of new friends.. Even your friends made new friends through the fact that we all knew you.. So, when Shauna said from "me and my family" she was talking bout me 2 eh.. hehehe.. small world indeed..

On friday night, my grandmother had a prayers.. Celebrating many things, some of which were not mentioned.. There were birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, the initiation of my baby cousin, losses and even my results from school lol. 

At the prayers, my grandfather's brother was speaking.. and this is what he said.. God has a plan for all of us.. We can do nothing to change his plans.. The way we deal with his plans is what we are judged upon.. We just have to accept everything as it is and make the best of it. Dont be angry about our losses and be thankful for our gains because these all happen for the best..

Usually, words cannot comfort the grieving. Just being there in silence or listening is comforting. We dont get over grief.. We get through it.. Nothing can change what has happened but being with the bereaved is the best we can do. The bereaved need companions who will truly listen and perhaps do some of the small everyday things that need doing. 

So, 1 year has gone by.. We still love u the same, miss u the same, respect you the same, consider u the same and cherrish you the same.. our son, brother, cousin, friend, neighbour, padna.. our Chris.. You still remain fresh in our memories and alive in our hearts.. R.I.P Sirju..

To aunty nina.. i have a feeling this is probably just a little piece of what you feel.. we are always here for you.. no matter what.. ;)

My Son...

My dearest Chris,
How i wish you were here.
The days and nights go by,
And we can feel you near.

You were taken so suddenly,
At a very young age.
We fight all the feelings,
But we are still filled with rage.

We pray you are happy,
We know you are free.
But it doesn't heal our hearts,
When here is where you should be.

I wait for you to come home,
Just out with your friends.
But i know that won't happen,
For you are now in heaven.

My heart is so heavy,
Its been torn from my chest.
How could God have taken,
One of his very best.

I suppose life will go on,
For your father and me.
And one day your beautiful face,
Again we will see.

Help us through this life, my love,
I pray on bended knee.
Until we are together again,
For all eternity.

Grey Days  / Auntie Ron (Aunt in Jamaica )  Read >>
Grey Days  / Auntie Ron (Aunt in Jamaica )

Since last week I have been dreading today, I predicted that it would be a sad and gloomy day for us, especially being physically away from my family.  All that I predicted was I opened my prayer book and went to the reading for January 22 (God's Calling  edited by A.J. RUSSELL) these words changed everything.

Be not afraid. I am your God, your Deliverer. From all evil, I will deliver you. Trust Me. Fear not.

Never forget your "Thank You." Do you not see it as a lesson? You must say "Thank You" on the greyest days. You must do it . All cannot be light unless you do. These is grey-day practice. It is absolutely necessary.

My death upon the Cross was not only necessary to save a world it was necessary, if only to train My Disciples. It was all a part of their training: my entering Jerusalem in triumph; My washing the disciples' feet; My sorrow-time in Gethsemane; My being despised, judged, crucified, buried. Every step was necessary to their development - and so with you.

If a grey day is one of Thankfulness, the lesson has to be repeated until it is.  Not to everyone is it so. But only to those who ask to serve Me well, and to do much for Me.

A great work, requires a great and careful training.

God is saying to all of us today is a Grey day but be Thankful for Chris's time with us .  

One year ago....  / Nina, Peter &. Kristen   Read >>
One year ago....  / Nina, Peter &. Kristen
One year ago Chris died and we didn't know what was going to happen to us. All we could think about was the moment and all we had were questions.

One year ago people were offering words of comfort, support and more love than we ever imagined. 
As grateful as we were we would give back all that just to have Chris back.

One year ago our family was broken and so our lives were broken. You see it's never easy loosing a child. For Peter & I our lives were falling apart and we didn't know what to do. We wondered how we were going to live now that our older child and only son was gone from us. Dying is so final...

One year ago Kristen lost her only big brother ..a brother who was the light of her life. He knew how to push her buttons and he knew how to love her without her even knowing. 

SO now that a year is here don't think for a moment that our pain i still hurts but it's easier now cause our angel is with us.
Chris is not gone but just waiting on the horizon for all of us and he will help us get there safely.

Chris loved life and lived it ...he is to a lot of people "The most unforgetable Character" you will meet.

We lost a great soul but we must never forget him. When we remember him he will live in our hearts. 

We must learn lessons from Chris' life. I think the most important is Love...he lived, loved and certailnly knew how to laugh. For all his life there was never a dull moment. 

So one year after, we thank God for giving Chris to US.

To all his friends....thanks for all your support. Thanks for sharing your memories with us. May God Bless you always.

To Uncle Mike (JA) thanks for all the wonderful graphis. We love what you did today.
To everyone who visited this website and kept it going with all your tributes, candles and pictures ..thanks. This has helped to heal us in ways you could never imagine.

To all our relatives and friends thanks for your support and love. We love you !

We will always remember Christopher Dominic Sirju.

Happy 1year in heaven  / Shauna ('he dawg' )  Read >>
Happy 1year in heaven  / Shauna ('he dawg' )
Although we are missing you so dam much and cry and wish and regret and ask why--i thought bout it friday night....and we shudnt grieve,I mean you are with god and eventually someday we will be there to..n we will all be united once again...we shud be happy cause he chose you,u completed wat it was u were put on earth to do, i remember him tellin me one day on the phone,..yuhkno i cant stay in trinidad,i too bright for this place.if i stay dem people cya pay me,dat day he told me he wanna go bak london cuz he knows he can get a job there that'll pay alot more than wat dey'll pay in trinidad..chris had big dreams for himself,he wanted to be someone great (greater i shud say cuz he was alredy great;)..and dats why god decided yuh kno wat..i hav bigger dreams for him n he gave him a new life.

i believe that someday we will meet him again,be patient,you cant rush time n niether can u write your destiny,only god pulls the strings and we are just the puppets joined to them so all we gotta do is live and have faith and believe in him...chris lived..n i am thankful that i had d opportunity to be a friend to a great person... he continues to live on inside us...always
friday nite i went to prayers in south,and yes i prayed for chris 2,me n stacy,lol..who i found out that nite is my pumpkinvine just llike typical chris to be friends with soo much people,he knew my own family n who dint even kno.we both were in the prayers n prayed for him also..its such a small wierd how i get to kno so much people thru chris n he's not even here...i am happy to gain new friends of his...
so boss..ah hope u enjoy ur 1st birthday in heaven,know that we missssss u alotttt,ah mean a yr gone n i still cant believe ur not here nemore and ALWAYS ASK YYYY,keep an eye on us cuz ill always think of u as an angel n pray n tlk to u wen im in need of a friend...its sunday morning now,it feels jus liek las yr..all the memories with be like a stick record today..its impossible to forget a great person who had made such an impact in my life...
Love yah n miss you alot alot from me n my family
REst in Peace hun
Gone waye to soon and will never be forgotten-Chrissypoo
ps..aunty nins stay strong,lift yuh chin up n smile-u gave god a precious gift-one day u'll be rewarded and he will be with u once again..luv yah Close
Some more moments  / Nina Sirju (Mom)  Read >>
Some more moments  / Nina Sirju (Mom)

This month is so very hard. I can't help but remember every day last if it was yesterday. 
I wish with all my heart that I could turn back time and go back to Jan 06. If I only knew ...
I guess it was not meant to be but it's do hard. I am missing you so much, Chris. 
I pray everyday for you and I know your spirit is with us today the car 6092 and the song.... hmmmm.

I love you with all my heart. You will always be MY SON and nothing, not even death will take you away from me.

So keep good and remember to always make us smile.

You're an angel!  / Stacy Sankar (D gurl in d car infront )  Read >>
You're an angel!  / Stacy Sankar (D gurl in d car infront )
You're an Angel!

Just like the haloed and winged guardians of good, you truly have a heart of gold, sweet Angel. Whenever there's a chance to pitch in, save the day or just make life easier for the people around you, you're the one for the job.

You don't just jump in without planning — you use your angelic head to figure out how to do things right the first time, like only the most dependable gods can. Whether brainstorming a new solution to a problem, planning a surprise party for your parents, or lending your friends a wing to cry on, you've got the right instincts, so follow them whenever you can. As natural as it is for you to take care of the people around you, don't forget to treat yourself right, too. The best friendships, and loves, of a lifetime tend to blossom when you become your own guardian angel.

So don't listen to those who say nice guys finish last. People have always seen you as a god of thoughtfulness and good intentions, and it hasn't slowed you down a bit. All in all, Angel, you've got it made with your glowing attitude and ability to see from on high. So get out there and change the world!
sup buddie  / Aaron Achan (friend)  Read >>
sup buddie  / Aaron Achan (friend)
last nite i jus kept remembering last yr dred...u came to our lil bar b que lime by phekoo for old years an laughin at me until u tasted my u good up in heaven great grandmum checked in there this mornin so keep a look out for her for me arite...hope to see u soon bro! Close
Chris, we will always rememeber you..........this year went by so quickly cannot believe that January 2007 is here and within days it will be one year since you left us to be with the Lord.

Strange enough the Saturday before Christmas we were coming home from Miami and in the airport we saw this guy that looked just like you ( i am always seeing someone looking like you) and with the spike-up hairdo and I said to uncle imtiaz that guy over there is looking just like Chris and I remember that  always a few days before Christmas you will come over and say to me " Aunty you would not see me for a few days as I am going down by my grandmother in cedros to spend the Christmas"  and I am thinking I would not have that visit any more but when i got home your that very evening your mom called and said she was coming over and i said to myself this is not strange this is Chris making his normal visit but through his Mom and Dad who  came over to visit, I could not say anything to your mom or I would have  cried when telling her and I did not want to upset her or your Dad but I know that you will  always be with us and you will always be part of us and our family.

This year was a very sad year for us we lost you and we lost our very dear friend Ramesh and recently Benedict another friend.  I hope that this year will be better year for all and hoping for a crime-free one also.

I miss your visits, laughter and our chats in the kitchen and also your sleep-overs those are things we will never share anymore but your memories will always be a part of us and our family forever, especially the trip to tobago for easter we always have laughs about it and i will always remember the day on the beach when you were trying to take analise picture on the beach in her bikini we had so much fun which cannot be erased from my memory.

I know that you will be happy to share your time with your grandmom now that she is there with you, take care of her and always look down on your mom, dad and kristen.



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