Christopher Sirju
(1985-2006)
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VIP Chris !!  / Candice Jananan (Friend)  Read >>
VIP Chris !!  / Candice Jananan (Friend)
Well i didn't kno Chris personally, jus by seein him around with friends, everywhere  i went he was dere, around always smiling :) 
He was a darlin, kind-hearted and a sweetheart. When everyone spoke of your death, i couldn't belive it, until i saw on Imzaan's HI5 dat it was you! I was shocked and speechless... Tings were gonna be different going out and not see u wid the crew. Chris, even though he never knew ur name, he will always remember d face and will always say HI or acknowldge u.... He was a cutie and of course all the ladies went crazy for him.  
Chris, i know that ur in  a better place now, looking down on all of us , especially on ur family who loves and missed u dearly....

May the good lord keep you under his wings and always in our hearts!!!
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A big hug ....  / Mom, Dad &. Kristen   Read >>
A big hug ....  / Mom, Dad &. Kristen
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We will have a home in Heaven...  / Nina Sirju (Mother)  Read >>
We will have a home in Heaven...  / Nina Sirju (Mother)
" For we know that when this earthly tent we live in is taken down -- when we die and leave these bodies -- we will have a home in heaven, an eternal body made for us by God himself and not by human hands. 
We grow weary in our present bodies and we long for the day when we will put on our heavenly bodies like new clothing. For we will not be spirits without our bodies but we will put on new heavenly bodies. 
Our dying bodies make us groan and sigh but it's not that we want to die and have no bodies at all. We want to slip into our new bodies so that these dying bodies will be swallowed up to everlasting life."

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May 22nd 2007...  / Mummy   Read >>
May 22nd 2007...  / Mummy
Chris,

Guess what?? Wippy (Mama'a Dog -Freeport) died today. Imagine he was 77 years old , one year younger than Mama. 

So Kristen and I were thinking since "all dogs go to Heaven" he must be up there playing with Mama and trying to bite you (lol).

Just thought I'd keep you updated...look out for Wippy!!!

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RIP Chris  / Renelle Sankar   Read >>
RIP Chris  / Renelle Sankar

i did not kno christopher wen he was alive but after hearing my sister talk about chris so much i feel as thought he was like a brother 2 me.having experienced a major loss on the 4th of april 2007 i kno wat it is like 2 loose sumone very close 2 u ,on the 4th of april my friend Latasha Guppy was was drivning along the highway on the north bound lane at around half 8 her father got a bad drive,trying not to hit the other vehicle he lost control of the car and drived onto the south bound lane crashing into a light pole.Both latasha and her older sister Rachel (15 and 16) died that night.Latasha died on the spot due to major head injuries and her sister dies a couple of minutes later.That was the night latasha's mother lost not one but 2 of her daughter.Aunty Nina i know what you went through after losing christopher was not easy, to see your son die before you would have been so painful.I hope you know christopher is in a better place now.RIP chris until we meet again.

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Aonther day with only memories of you....  / Mummy   Read >>
Aonther day with only memories of you....  / Mummy
Chris,

Yesterday was the Chruch fundraiser...two years ago you insisted on cooking your famous Curry Duck. I remember how you cooked and had Jean Paul come over to help you decorate the dish (for presentation) and after all the cutting and colouring you decided that it was not looking good ( I can't write what you really said on this site) and just went with the duck.

I remember how you said that you were cooking for the church for charity and you would get Blessings. I missed you  so much yesterday son. 

Thanks for the memories. I have so many and there will never be a moment what you won't be remembered. You are gone but your spirit will live forever..in my heart and in the hearts of so many people.

Love always 

Mummy

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Peace of mind  / Lee Ann Bachan (ex gf )  Read >>
Peace of mind  / Lee Ann Bachan (ex gf )

When I spoke to aunty nina the other day it got me thinking alot about you. I thought about it so much that i had a dream about you. You were so happy, it kind of overwhelmed me. I got upset with you. I couldn't understand how you can be so happy when there are people still grieving for you. It was only moments after i awaken i understood it. Why should you cry, or be in pain. You have found peace, just the way it should be. Cry not for what has been lost but rejoice for what has been gain. Everyone was touched by you in some way and you have been touched by others. You deserve happiness, you deserve peace. Now i am quite sure that you have found it. 

Love always
Lee Ann.
 

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On Mother's Day-2007  / Mummy   Read >>
On Mother's Day-2007  / Mummy

One of the best things about being a Mom is that you are a Mom FOREVER.

 So I decided that I am not going to be sad (a little bit ) this year and from now on cause first of all your wonderful ape sister is here making my day just as great and I will always be your mummy. There's no past tense here ...people refer to me a Christopher's mom and so it will always be.

You are with the Lord now and you are at the best place to give me the greatest gift for Mother's Day....

I love you son...you will always be special cause you made me a mother and for that I will always miss you on this day more that any other day cause it reminds me of who I  am. You know I always said that my first job is "Mom" ....everything else comes after.

Luv ya Chris...
 

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Dear Chris.  / Nina Sirju   Read >>
Dear Chris.  / Nina Sirju
You are a wonderful person, so you do wonderful things.
You can make a difference in your world.
You have a purpose, you have the power, you are magic.
You can create beauty, recall the past, plan the future.

You can soar in imagination.
You have the courage to question and you can choose to change.

You do not compare yourself with others, you draw your own dreams and design your own destiny.

You live each day to the fullest and give a little more that you take.

You make this world a better place to live because you always...
always listen to your own heart for only you know what is best for you.

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Hello Chris  / Someone You Don't Know (nobody)  Read >>
Hello Chris  / Someone You Don't Know (nobody)
Today i finally found out the reason i dont see you around anymore. Im late; really late now and im so angry about it. I always had the chance to talk to you but never the courage. I was scared.. Scared that you would blank me or think i was some kind of weird stalker only because i had no connection to you. None of my friends would introduce me to you because i was too shy to say i had a crush on you. Now, after reading this site, i've found out what i didnt get to find out on my own. I didnt experience the real Chris but im sure it would have been great. I can imagine hearing your voice, or laughing at your jokes, maybe even liming with you and your friends. Oh that would have been great. I cant say much because you ddidnt even know i existed.. Your friends are so lucky they had the privilige of knowing you and being in your company. Your family members are so blessed to say that you were their own. Your sister, your mom and dad.. They loved you so much and they still do.. Look at this beautiful site they have created in your memory, beautiful just like you. Im so proud of them and i have to say that your mom is really strong! I admire that! I would do anything to go back to that first day when you almost walked into me.. I wish i could take back my reaction and relive it differently.. Well at least i could say i got to touch you lol i know it sounds bad but thats how much i wish i knew you. I wish i could call myself one of Christopher Sirju's friends. That name.. my oh my.. what a powerful sound it has.. It stands for strength, courage, love, ambition, happiness and peace. Can anyone ever live up to be the person u were in those 20 years? I doubt it.. You were something special and great! My only regret is that i wasnt brave enough to talk to you.. Not once out of the twenty three times i walked right pass you jus to smell your sweet cologne, on your way to the gym. Well Chris, I am saying hi now.. Hopefully we can meet soon and i promise i will say hi the next time. I've learned a lesson from my mistake.. Do what u wanna do, Go where u wanna go, say what u wanna say, be what u wanna be and meet who u wanna meet cuz u only have one lifetime to do it in.. its better to do something and regret it than to regret not doing something. **RIP CHRISTOPHER DOMINIC SIRJU** Close
why am i so sad?  / Wannabe Deonarine (im not weird.. im just a retard )  Read >>
why am i so sad?  / Wannabe Deonarine (im not weird.. im just a retard )

What Is Sadness?
Sadness is a feeling - it's one of the many normal human emotions, or moods, we all have. Sadness is the emotion people feel when they've lost something important, or when they have been disappointed about something, or when something sad has happened to them or to someone else. When they're lonely, people often feel sad. When you're sad, the world may seem dark and unfriendly. You might feel like you have nothing to look forward to. The hurt deep inside may crush your usually good mood. Sometimes when your mood is sad, you just feel like being alone for a little while. Or you might want someone to comfort you or just keep you company while you go through the sad feeling. Talking about what has made you sad usually helps the sad feeling melt away. When sadness starts to go away, it can feel like a heavy blanket is being lifted from your shoulders.


Some days i feel like there is no point in my life.. Some days i feel like there is nobody who cares.. Some days i feel like the "friends" i have are not what i think they are.. Some days i feel like im all alone in this world.. Some days i feel like shouting soooo loud, just to get all these feelings out of me.. It builds up inside me until it reaches an unbearable point where i have to let it all out.. Talking, laughing, crying, liming, texting an ape, eating rasgula, playing cricket, reading, exercising.... none of these help me.. i dont know what to do.. Who to go to.. what to say.. 

Ever noticed that no matter how many people you know, how many friends / family / cousins / sisters / brothers / neighbours you have.. Whenever you are feeling at your very worst.. When everything seems to be going wrong.. When you need someone to just be there.. They're never around.. Sometimes, its just one person u wanna see or hear from to cheer you up.. That one person will always disappoint you.. Eventually things get better..

According to this site, you died 444 days ago.. So much has happened.. I know you not missing out on anything cuz i've been dreaming you for the last couple ah days.. And as strange enough as it is.. Today i got an email saying Christopher Suruj had sent you an invite to join the group "we are all heaven's angels".. At first glance.. I swear i saw your name, but when i went up close to the screen, after a few blinks i realised it wasnt Sirju lol. I dont even know who that person is.. Weird.. I dont know what exactly you trying to tell me.. Im still trying to figure it out.. 

Im so confused, frustrated, angry and fedup right now.. I dont know how to start clearing out these things from my head.. people look at me and think im the happiest child on the face of this earth.. thats only on the outside.. i keep this feeling deep inside me, trying not to get close to anyone else because of bad experiences in the past.. the ones who u trust the most are the ones most likely to hurt you in the end.. I want to be around ppl who understand me.. but.... Who does? Nobody does.. Nobody understands.. I know for a fact you would have understood.. Just like all the other times before.. you never left me hanging when i came to you.. :)

Exams is right around the corner and i feel like something bad is about to happen.. Lord.. Chris.. Help!! Gimme some sort of direction and purpose in this journey.. please and thanks.. rip angel chris..

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Easter is coming, Easter is coming....  / Sue~ Mom To Ashley Trapp   Read >>
Easter is coming, Easter is coming....  / Sue~ Mom To Ashley Trapp

Christopher,



Easter Morn

Easter morn with lilies fair

Fills the church with perfumes rare,

As their clouds of incense rise,

Sweetest offerings to the skies.

Stately lilies pure and white

Flooding darkness with their light,

Bloom and sorrow drifts away,

On this holy hallow'd day.

Easter Lilies bending low

in the golden afterglow,

Bear a message from the sod

To the heavenly towers of God

By Louise Lewin Matthews

God Bless You Nina,
Sue, Ashley’s Mom


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I believe..  / Keshan Dass (Friend)  Read >>
I believe..  / Keshan Dass (Friend)
I believe
...that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other.
And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I believe
...that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I believe
...that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I believe
...that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I believe
...that you can do something in a instant that will give you heartache for life.

I believe
...that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I believe
...that you should always leave loved ones with
loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I believe
...that you can keep going long after you think
you can't.

I believe
...that we are responsible for what we do, no
matter how we feel.

I believe
...that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I believe
...That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I believe
...that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I believe
...that my best friend and I can do anything or
nothing and have the best time.

I believe
...that sometimes the people you expect to kick
you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

I believe
...that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right
to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I believe
...that maturity has more to do with what types
of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I believe
...that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I believe
...that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I believe
...that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I believe
...that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I believe
...two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I believe
...that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I believe
...that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.

I believe
...that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I believe
...that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.
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Friendship Poem..  / Stacy Sankar (Stalker)  Read >>
Friendship Poem..  / Stacy Sankar (Stalker)
FRIENDSHIP POEM!!

You're my sunshine when the days are dull,
My good when things turn bad,
You're my armor through the troubled times,
My joy when I am sad.
You're my comfort when I'm frightened,
My calm when I am stressed,
You put my life in order,
When I've left it in a mess.
You carry me when I am tired,
You lift me up when I am down.
You make me laugh when I feel like crying,
Make me smile when I'm gonna frown.
No matter what you're doing,
You always make time to spare,
Though I don't deserve, you put me first,
You always have time to care.
I'm sorry for all the many times,
I didn't treat you as I should,
When I didn't appreciate how great you are,
Didn't love you like I could.
I'm sorry for all the times I hurt you,
For all the times I made you wanna cry,
I see now, I was SO wrong,
Cause without you, who am I? 


Ok i never hurt Chris eh.. Iz jus a poem lol.. But these days i missin him plenty.. What makes a frindship special is the way each one remembers the other when they are apart. They miss the talks, the laughs n the time they spent together. Life changes, memories don't. Memories play a confusing role. They make u laugh when u remember the time u cried together! But make u cry when u remember the time u laughed together. Special and irreplaceable.. RIP Chris Close
This site..  / Navin (Distant Friend )  Read >>
This site..  / Navin (Distant Friend )
So i add this girl on msn because i saw from her facebook profile that we had alot in common and well she was cute too. Aunty Nina, facebook is another friends site like hi5.. When i saw her online, we were both bored and decided to open up a huge conversation with about 19 people in the chat.. To my suprise.. and when i say suprise.. ah mean suprise.. i was in shock.. all those girls and the few fellas in the conversation.. Their personal msgs were "† R.I.P Christopher Dominic Sirju †".. So that got me to thinking.. Buh i know that name from somewhere.. Hmm all these beautiful chicks knew this man.. So i asked them how he died and they gave me the link to this memorial site, just to read it. Man when ah read this thing and ah watch those pics.. Tears appeared! I remember when we were in Boys RC and this lil white looking fella come to class with those glasses and watch these pics now.. Check he nuh.. A rel ladies man yuh know jed.. Doh get tie up! I reading these candles and i loss count of how many chicks fire up flambou for him.. Well i made about 20 new friends last night and i just wanna say thanks to Chris for that! He knew the right people, they're all great friends to have and nice people to talk to. Christopher surely knew how to pick his friends.. Those are some wonderful people i talked to last night and believe it or not, we had that conversation going for about 4 hours and the whole thing was about him. Remembering him and the things he used to say.. Nicknames and phrases he used to constantly use.. It was really nice! I didnt know what happened to Chris and im sorry.. My condolences to the family.. I know how you all feel.. I lost my older brother in a similar incident about 4 years ago and i know its very hard to cope with! But i also know that when u lose a person who was this special and had this amount of friends.. Many of them turn to the family and become good friends and try to make u understand that you didnt lose anyone.. you just made new friends who are just like the person u lost. Believe it or not, those friends are the ones who remind u of your lost one everyday. When his friends come to spend time with you or do you a favour or even talk to you, its as if you are with Chris.. If u havent noticed it yet, take the time to notice.. its all worthwhile in the end.. Having his friends come over just to say hi or just to lime.. Just to crack a joke or even bother u the way he used to do it. Its comforting. Eventually they will be the ones u would want to see everyday. So this is now my personal msg.. RIP CHRIS SIRJU

Hey mom to Chris.. get msn messenger lol. you would be suprised..

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Lenten Reflection...an e-mail from Aunty Maureen  / Mummy   Read >>
Lenten Reflection...an e-mail from Aunty Maureen  / Mummy
“Family life - What is family? 

It was once said if you want to understand something, look closely at it, when it is broken. 
Visit a hospital and you will understand health. 
Visit a prison and you will understand freedom.
 Visit a broken home and you would understand family. 
We will look first at what family is not, and then what it is.

Family is more than ties of blood, living under the same roof, the same surname, eating at the same table, exchanging gifts, and giving hugs and kisses on Christmas day. It is something both messy and wonderful. Family is made up of imperfect, incomplete, flawed, human beings of different ages, experience, and maturity.

At its best, it is mutual love, intense bonding, and a commitment to drawing the best out of each other. Togetherness goes beyond sentimentality and self interest. It mirrors God’s commitment and like God’s commitment to us, it brings light into dark places and makes “deserts bloom”.

Family life is not some genie in a bottle you rub, make a wish, say the magic word, and have a perfect family. Alas life is more complex. Family life is hard work. It is at best when each member is making his or her unique contribution. 
The essence of family life is thoughtfulness and consideration, compassion and forgiveness. It doesn’t happen automatically. It takes great discipline. The word “discipline” comes from disciple. A disciple is one who follows Christ in his kind and gentle ways. Discipline is a special kind of love. It is love as in laying down life for your family and friends, asking not what can I get, but what can I give. Discipline is the key.



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Shux.. is this for real?  / Shiva Harrilal (Friend)  Read >>
Shux.. is this for real?  / Shiva Harrilal (Friend)
Oh my God, i cant believe this.. Christopher Sirju? You sure dred? WOW! I was now going through profiles on hi5 an saw this rel hot girl. I said to myself.. lemme check out this one because she was looking really cool. you know u dont find too much chicks these days with both "cool and pretty" in one anymore! Her last entered journal was dated 22nd January, 2007! It was about this friend who died in a car accident a year ago and is still so hard to accept! When i scrolled down to the picture of the guy im like.. yo i know him from somewhere.. i can remember.. he used to lime with us on evenings after skool. I sent her a message right away and asked her if it was ok to write on this site. Her reply was.. "Ofcourse, wat u think it there for man? Pay a tribute, everyone loves to read about Chris".. We were not close or anything, just fellas liming and killing time with ole talk and jokes.. I remember this one time, when i told him i live in Debe, he started asking me to bring some rasgula and aloopie for him. Then i was nicknamed "the doubles man".. Im very sorry bout what happened, i didnt know about it... Im in total shock.. Oh how i wish i was closer to him.. He was a great guy! But to his parents, i can see how much you love and miss your son. He was a good talker (from what i remember).. Is the place quiet now? He was also the guy who attracted all the girls with that face of his. Im sure you're slowly getting to meet all of them who he knew. He touched many lives. I guess thats no shocker that the pretty girl knew him right! Well, i love this site. Its great and it was a pleasure reading all these things about him. I can see he lived a great life without any regrets! My condolences to the family. I cant believe i am now finding out about this. Rest In Peace Christopher Sirju! Close
Letter to mom and dad  / A. Friendly Stranger (Chris' Angel )  Read >>
Letter to mom and dad  / A. Friendly Stranger (Chris' Angel )
Letter to Mom

Mom, please don’t feel guilty
It was just my time to go.
I see you are still feeling sad,
And the tears just seem to flow.

We all come to earth for our lifetime,
And for some it’s not many years
I don’t want you to keep crying
You are shedding so many tears.

I haven’t really left you
Even though it may seem so.
I have just gone to my heavenly home,
And I’m closer to you than you know.

Just believe that when you say my name
I’m standing next to you,
I know you long to see me,
But there’s nothing I can do.

But I’ll still send you messages
And hope you understand,
That when your time comes to “cross over,”
I’ll be there to take your hand. 

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I love you mom, its not your fault. Dont blame your self.. Never feel you were not there for me. Dad grieves as well.. Thank you dad, for being strong for mom and kristen. Dad, this one is for you.. get it off your mind and into the open. Dont be afraid Dad, i love you too. My sister.. they say when a child passes away, the other children are neglected.. Yeah right!!! I know the ape enjoying herself being the only child now.. Nevertheless, i know you miss me as well.. I was your big bro, the one to harass you and make fun of you.. I still do :) and i am always here for you. Be there for mom, love her three times as much.. Two for me and one for you. How could you think i left you, i am right here.. always looking at you and keeping you safe! My friends.. Thanks for keeping in touch with my family, Thanks for getting close to them, taking the time to know them, making the effort to comfort them. I appreciate it. I love you guys! *sings*.. On the road to Zion..
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Don’t Think I Do Not Grieve (DAD)

Don’t think I do not feel;
because you see no tears.
A river rages deep inside
of grief, and loss, and fears.

Just because I do not cry now,
don’t think my heart’s not broken.
I keep inside the misery
of words not to be spoken.

Sometimes I smile, or crack a joke,
so you won’t see the pain;
or notice how my hands will shake,
or how I’ve gone insane.

Each time I chance to think of him,
my heart is ripped asunder.
The loss I feel is mine alone.
you will not see my thunder.
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Life is Short...  / Mummy   Read >>
Life is Short...  / Mummy

                   LIFE IS SHORT
                           
                          
SO


                       LIVE


                       LOVE

     
                  LEARN


 and     LEAVE A LEGACY....
( Stephen Covey: The 8th habit) 

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r.i.p my brother  / Ryan Sadoo (a friend of a friend )  Read >>
r.i.p my brother  / Ryan Sadoo (a friend of a friend )
well i did  not know him, all i know of him is what i have seen an read on this site an from my friend stacy who was his friend an she's d 1 who i also found out bout this site from. from the time i started 2 read up  about  christopher an how his life was  ended i just stop ever thing that i was doing an started 2 read up more, it was very sad 2 me till tears came 2 my eye, i feel so sorry 2 here bout this an how his life was ended. one good an very kool thing that i have read 2 night bout him is how he useter go 2 church an how he took holy communion  that day so u know that he is in are better place now. R.I.P christopher. an 1 think 2 night an this web site was a big wake up call 2 me an how i shud give thanks ever day 4 life {tears in eye} an i just wanna send out my condolences 2 the family an to his mom nina an all d best bye bye Close
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